character development

The power of the inability to learn a lesson is the multiplier of the cost to fix it.

The way, the rationality escapes that statement, evokes a value of confusion.

Confusion is when our minds become adaptable.

The positive and negative budget we demonstrate in our behavior shows a percentage of denial.

The denial value in our lives points to disorder and imbalances in our budgets.

One demonstration of imbalance is to say, "Do what I say, not what I do."

To impose different standards on others, than to oneself is called border-line personality.

Parenting is a good time to impose better standards than previously understood.

Experience gives opportunity to act-out and develop talents in pursuit of occupational support.

We need a collection of characters we develop from improvisation in accordance to adapt-ablities.

To add the word disorder to the concept of border-line personality is recognition of the denial that removes us from reality.

Respect for changing our minds allows the old conclusions to be re-conceived for integrity (to conceive) only comes from partnerships of opposites... but don't criticize the less-lucky ones.

unreasonable?

Saying "no excuses" is an (emotional) excuse for being unreasonable (unable to reason)

Authoritarianism undermines democracy

I learned about transactional therapy from my (social worker) parents, Common reflex (confusion) sees similarity between talking like an adult and projecting parental attitudes. Whenever people use threats like blame or shame in their presentation, the attitude of dominance undermines the feeling of equality. To talk like an adult depends on a balance of respect, if only for self expression.

"Never argue with an idiot, they'll bring you down to their level then beat you with experience."
Any urge to argue is a warning that my idiot mentality is creeping up on my image-nation.

The journalist model of educated observation is HOW facts are stated without implying blame or shame. The informed adult stands alone but the parental behavior relies on someone to dominate..

just say yes

Let me share a conceptual treatment.
I have Borderline Personality Disorder, since it is a new (powerful) understanding. The most simple explanation is when a person's stated standards are different than behavioral examples (paradox). "I always lie."
The tendency to say, "do as I say, not as I do," might be the best clue. The rational intricacy means the smartest people maintain the denial complexes that aggravate the dis-ease.
The best way to take it easy is to admit a reflex to exaggerate and deny. Saying NO is the quickest way to feel power over someone.
The variation that works for self-control is controlling the urge to over-amp or upset yourself. Honesty is the only treatment if truth can cure reality.
Maybe sharing Borderline Personality Disorder is the path to a more cohesive social behavior. Admitting that the established borders are causing disorder might behave as an agent to socialize.
Degrees of social acceptance make some things hotter than others. If honesty was a drug could we make people crave it to escape disorder?
But if this treatment seems heavy and got you lightheaded maybe I did something honestly - yes?

borderline defensive

We all define our personalities within certain parameters. This brings to mind a concept of therapy for something called "borderline personality disorder." When people behave in ways they would not tolerate from others they have crossed a standard of self-acceptance and to the degree they can deny creating a problem is how unbalanced they are willing to make themselves. How this can effect (the performance of) other people makes it a responsibility of society to be informed (performance art).

Denial is the main symptom so the those who need the most help (learning about it) are the least likely to admit the tendency (that) is prevalent in everyone. You can't tell people you are concerned with their feelings if they don't want to understand yours can care innocently (when theirs don't.) Self actualization starts with maintaining contentment with behavior deviation. Denial of the potential that healthy attitude can treat depression is an interesting symptom of limiting hopefulness.

The hope I found in the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" comes from the intelligence needed to maintain this emotional codependency called borderline personality disorder. This affliction is harbinger of an information age paradigm. "Emotional Intelligence" implies the experimenting that harnesses a new power source from appreciating paradox. Conflict in your mind is like needing opposing muscle groups to get up off your ass.