act sense ably
Role playing was the most enlightening practice of my mediation training.
As a parent to teens, the opportunity to sure up my foundation comes from the acceptance of self interest, care is tricky or they (teens) won't!
This stage of emotional hygiene easily goes pathological when the care for appearance denies a feeling for integrity (honesty.)
Attention (to detail) can sense the act discomfort amplifies if care isn't realized generously.
Response abilities can easily misappropriate care as limits (& budgets.)
Credit care to fund potential power plays - act better naturally.
"Never appeal to a man's "better nature." He may not have one. Invoking his self-interest gives you more leverage." - Heinlein, pg. 244, Time Enough For LOVE